From Weakness to Wow: Day 21 of 30 Days of Unlocking Your Unique Potential
Perfect 🙌 Here’s Day 21.
Day 21: How Others See Me (Feedback as a Mirror)
✨ Teaching Nugget
The way others experience you is often different from how you see yourself. Feedback is like a mirror—it shows you angles you can’t see on your own.
For Gen Z, authenticity matters. But being “real” doesn’t mean ignoring how you affect others. True authenticity blends self-awareness with relational awareness.
👉 Feedback isn’t about judgment—it’s about perspective.
👉 People who grow fast are those who listen well.
When you dare to ask others, “How do I come across?” you gain insights that can transform your relationships, career, and calling.
📝 Reflection / Journaling Prompts
- How do I think others see me?
- Do I think my intention and my impact usually match?
- When was the last time someone gave me feedback that surprised me?
🎯 Activity
360° Feedback Mini-Exercise
- Ask 3 different people (friend, family, colleague/classmate):
“What’s one word you’d use to describe me, and why?” - Compare the answers. Do they align or conflict with how you see yourself?
- Journal about the gap between how I see me vs. how others see me.
đź“– Scripture Anchor
“Let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance.” – Proverbs 1:5
🚀 Takeaway
Feedback isn’t about fixing who you are—it’s about refining how you show up. Let others be your mirror, and you’ll grow in clarity, humility, and purpose.
